The chosen path - Marriage.
My New Beginning - A New Status.
People conclude that the moment a Man becomes a Husband, he morphs from an affectionate to a chauvinist. Sadly, i find this to be true.
In these modern times, it IS a wonder as to how come such a catastrophe still exists?
This is not India. (Knock Knock!)
Well, perhaps even the latter has modernised. Geez.
In just our 2 weeks together, in the same house,same room, one bed, is where all the 'Silly' stuffs started.
I learned that Man can at times be damn unappreciative and unsensitive. And they have the cheek to blame us women for being too EMO, too childish, too sensitive ... Well, can i blame our hormones for that? I wonder how is it that people can change in such a short, short time.
Let me cite an example :
After work yesterday, (8.30-6.00pm), i reached home to cook dinner, do the dishes, iron his clothes ... Blah Blah Blah ... When i finally had time to watch TV, he was asleep. Simple. I watched Godzilla on my own from start till the end. Even though i was dead tired, i still managed to prepare some dishes which he'll be bringing for lunch the next day. After my shower and hours of being ignored, i simply switched on my Laptop and starting chatting and surfing - all done in less than an hour and finally i was on the way to dreamland.
Time check : 1.00am.
I awake at 6 in the morning to cook and was amazed to see him all ready for work.
Talk about Basic Courtesy.
He didnt even have to cheek to let me know in advanced that i did not have to cook in the morning. If he had mention it at all, in which he didnt, i wouldnt have Fu**ing prepare the dishes even though i was slogging myself away.
I feel useless, unappreciated.
Forgiveness, at that moment was impossible.
This isnt about me being sensitive.
This is more on Courtesy, Respect.
I cried in the wee hours of the morning and who's to blame? My Hormones? Or his nochalant behaviour?
Done with the draining of my tears, i silently make a vow to not cook today, and perhaps the next day too.
Why cant MAN understand? It is hard enough to be a Housewife but im not just ANY housewife.
I am one bloody housewife with a Mentally-Challenging Full Time job!
And to think that HE has the cheek to have a Baby with me?
My question(s) to him :
Will you blame my Pregnancy Hormones if i get Over-Emotional? :p Im Pissed!
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
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